Posted on 2022-03-20 03:22:13
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I mean I know shit about relationships, seeing as how I'm a lonely af loser, but his reaction of "as long as [you're] fine getting fucked he doesn't mind" is a yellow flag imo. Like call me a naive but, I'd want any partner I had to enjoy sex with me, so a partner thinking "well its fine so long as I can at least get off" is pretty selfish on his end.
Like if you're asexual then you guys need to recognize and work that out. You're not in the wrong for wanting to enjoy the moment. But there was a failure to communicate and understand each other's wants and comfort zones on both of you....again this coming from who's never been wanted by anyone and am in general a terrible communicator so what the hell do I know.