HypnoNovice
10/13/15 10:27PM
Why is so hard to find a tist?
I know, everyone are looking for them, but why it is to hard? Especially to find female tist, but ye, its nothing new either. I've been looking for female tists on various chats for a few days and failed miserably. It went so far that I decided to make a thread here! In other way, I wouldn't even bother

Please, forgive me that my madness went so deep. Im just going crazy to think how it would be to be hypnotised by a woman, especially that I've never been hypnotised before
Changer
10/13/15 10:45PM
If you act desperate, that can hinder your chances. There are a lot of bad subs out there who behave extremely desperately, but then are selfish and disrespectful to their Dom once they find one. It's caused a lot of doms to shy away from new subs who come across as desperately wanting to be tranced. Your best chances would be to go to a meetup place like sleepychat or #tranceland and participate in some of the normal conversation there. After people get to know you better, you will have a better chance of finding someone willing to trance you.
HypnoNovice
10/13/15 11:03PM
Thank you for advice

Well indeed here I sound like a desperate, but if it comes to chat I try to act normally. Maybe I'm not talking too much, sometimes just say something in general or pm somebody to start conversation but still cant manage to find a tist
PrincessLucina
10/13/15 11:35PM
As a Switch, I must say....Nothing turns off the Dom in me like a sub being desperate. It's repulsive and makes me feel like I need to shove you away from me. (Not you personally). Regardless, Trust is crucial in a Dom/Sub Relationship. Without trust there is no ground for trance to stand on.
Nazwa
10/14/15 12:00AM
HypnoNovice said:
I know, everyone are looking for them, but why it is to hard? Especially to find female tist, but ye, its nothing new either. I've been looking for female tists on various chats for a few days and failed miserably. It went so far that I decided to make a thread here! In other way, I wouldn't even bother

Please, forgive me that my madness went so deep. Im just going crazy to think how it would be to be hypnotised by a woman, especially that I've never been hypnotised before


I... I'm sorry to say it, but... It took me two tries to understand what you mean, mainly due to word "hypnotised" or any similar appear at very end of your post.

I kinda thought it's about "tits".

As non-native speaker I know how clarity is important, trying to be bit more specific probably will help at search...
cypress_z
10/14/15 02:24AM
I do audio hypnosis sessions for women but I only do them for people I know well. Quite frankly just doing stuff with random people usually ends with an unpleasant experience. I'm too busy and have too little time to mess around with that.

Anyway what I tend to look for in a sub I'm willing to have a session with is just being a pleasant person. If I can't get along with you generally I just don't want to have anything to do with you in an erotic context.

Of course for the men hypnotizing women side of things the demographics are heavy with half-assed maledoms for a small community of women. The opposite is true for men wanting female doms - there's a lot of men and few femdommes, so the good ones get to be picky.

Abe_Smith
10/14/15 04:50AM
PrincessLucina said:
As a Switch, I must say....Nothing turns off the Dom in me like a sub being desperate. It's repulsive and makes me feel like I need to shove you away from me. (Not you personally). Regardless, Trust is crucial in a Dom/Sub Relationship. Without trust there is no ground for trance to stand on.


*nods* Yes I can attest to that. Trust is a huge part of hypnosis and the relationship between to people. The more trust between 2 people the more comfortable both will be with each other, and the easier it is so go under (imo).

Unfortunately I've never had the luxury of being able to trust someone enough to go so deep into hypnosis that my mind might as well be jelly. It's the type of trust I'd love to have with another person. But I'd never yell and actively complain about it consistently on forums, chat, etc.

Bobbette
10/14/15 06:45AM
Abe_Smith said:
*nods* Yes I can attest to that. Trust is a huge part of hypnosis and the relationship between to people. The more trust between 2 people the more comfortable both will be with each other, and the easier it is so go under (imo).

Unfortunately I've never had the luxury of being able to trust someone enough to go so deep into hypnosis that my mind might as well be jelly. It's the type of trust I'd love to have with another person. But I'd never yell and actively complain about it consistently on forums, chat, etc.




I like to consider myself a switch but I also have trust issues in giving my mind over to others and can't relax enough to enjoy it.
Trust is definitely a huge part, and I consider it a huge responsibility as a dom to make sure any subjects feel comfortable and safe and enjoy the experience as much (though I try to make it moreso) than oneself.
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