HypnoHub - How to hipnotize a willing friend

poisonsumac

04/20/19 11:22AM

How to hipnotize a willing friend

I have this female friend who is submissive to hipnosis and by those chances of life I have a hipnosis dominant kink, so I want to hear some opinions on how to hipnotize her better
Any advise is welcomed

RedCollarBlackCollar

04/20/19 11:43AM

For starters, spell hypnosis correctly.

poisonsumac

04/20/19 12:23PM

RedCollarBlackCollar said:
For starters, spell hypnosis correctly.

I'm latin american so thats how we spell it in my country

EdgeOfTheMoon

04/20/19 12:24PM

First thing you'll want to do is some reading. Unfortunately while there's a lot of books out there there is also a lot rubbish with ridiculous claims. Stay skeptical. The one I've found most useful is Mind Play by Mark Wiseman which is all about erotic hypnosis

Also one thing I found that made hypnosis easier was being hypnotised a couple of times. Helps to know what the subject should be feeling

poisonsumac

04/20/19 12:41PM

EdgeOfTheMoon said:
First thing you'll want to do is some reading. Unfortunately while there's a lot of books out there there is also a lot rubbish with ridiculous claims. Stay skeptical. The one I've found most useful is Mind Play by Mark Wiseman which is all about erotic hypnosis

I've already started reading what I can, I'm sick of all the 'auto hipnosis to atrack money' kind of shit, I'll make sure to read Mind Play though

Also one thing I found that made hypnosis easier was being hypnotised a couple of times. Helps to know what the subject should be feeling

I think you're talking about "being hipnotized the first time is hard, then it starts to become easier" trend, I know of that and she has already hipnotized herself a few times so that step is already cleared

RedCollarBlackCollar

04/20/19 01:02PM

poisonsumac said:
I'm latin american so thats how we spell it in my country

Never heard of that before. But I'll give you benefit of the doubt.

EdgeOfTheMoon

04/20/19 02:38PM

poisonsumac said:
I think you're talking about "being hipnotized the first time is hard, then it starts to become easier" trend, I know of that and she has already hipnotized herself a few times so that step is already cleared

That's very true but I meant being hypnotised I found made me learn a lot about how to hypnotise other people

poisonsumac said:
I've already started reading what I can, I'm sick of all the 'auto hipnosis to atrack money' kind of shit

Haha. Yeah seen those. I think the most ridiculous claim I saw in a book was hypnosis could change your eye color

crazyman

04/20/19 05:25PM

my advice?
learn by doing. i mostly taught myself on the fly, so just jump into it and figure it out for yourself. if you do need a starting point, look up an induction method

bullet

04/21/19 01:21AM

RedCollarBlackCollar said:
Never heard of that before. But I'll give you benefit of the doubt.

I have heard of it, and I have some Latin friends. It checks out.

Friye

04/21/19 05:01AM

It's very important in any dom/sub situation to talk about what'll happen beforehand, and perhaps a safeword or something that either of you can use if it gets to be too much.

Always stay respectful of your partner. Though they may be eager, some subs (submissives) can get too nervous in the moment.

Never ask your sub to do something in the trance that wasn't previously agreed upon with a rational mind on both ends, and know that no means no to that moment. If you push your sub too far at once (or yourself!) you risk ruining a lot of work and making the journey a lot harder on yourself.

And remember~ have fun with it!

godzillahomer

04/21/19 05:07AM

Friye said:
It's very important in any dom/sub situation to talk about what'll happen beforehand, and perhaps a safeword or something that either of you can use if it gets to be too much.

Always stay respectful of your partner. Though they may be eager, some subs (submissives) can get too nervous in the moment.

Never ask your sub to do something in the trance that wasn't previously agreed upon with a rational mind on both ends, and know that no means no to that moment. If you push your sub too far at once (or yourself!) you risk ruining a lot of work and making the journey a lot harder on yourself.

And remember~ have fun with it!

yep, take it similarly to bondage

safe, sane, and consensual

poisonsumac

04/21/19 11:11AM

Friye said:
It's very important in any dom/sub situation to talk about what'll happen beforehand, and perhaps a safeword or something that either of you can use if it gets to be too much.

Always stay respectful of your partner. Though they may be eager, some subs (submissives) can get too nervous in the moment.

Never ask your sub to do something in the trance that wasn't previously agreed upon with a rational mind on both ends, and know that no means no to that moment. If you push your sub too far at once (or yourself!) you risk ruining a lot of work and making the journey a lot harder on yourself.

And remember~ have fun with it!

Believe me, I'm the one who wants to take things safely, put a safe word, rules, limits and all that (I'm not confident in my own selfcontrol)
But my partner says "do what you want" and gets mad at me, I dont know if she just doesn't think it will get to that point, or if she doesnt want to use them and get to the end
The bad thing is that I'm the dominant so I need to take initiative so...

Imasuky

04/21/19 11:14AM

poisonsumac said:
Believe me, I'm the one who wants to take things safely, put a safe word, rules, limits and all that (I'm not confident in my own selfcontrol)
But my partner says "do what you want" and gets mad at me, I dont know if she just doesn't think it will get to that point, or if she doesnt want to use them and get to the end
The bad thing is that I'm the dominant so I need to take initiative so...

For the first time just go simple put in a trigger to make it easier to go under, and a safety to snap awake if anything get's uncomfortable.

And just focus on making her relax and feel good, no need to do much on the first time

Friye

04/23/19 05:26AM

poisonsumac said:
Believe me, I'm the one who wants to take things safely, put a safe word, rules, limits and all that (I'm not confident in my own selfcontrol)
But my partner says "do what you want" and gets mad at me, I dont know if she just doesn't think it will get to that point, or if she doesnt want to use them and get to the end
The bad thing is that I'm the dominant so I need to take initiative so...

If you're the dominant one, then you can very well lay down the law. You tell her that it'll be safe, with rules, because that is what you want.

It may seem stiff or boring to have rules to your playtime, but they can be sexy as hell. (I don't have any actual experience in this, but I imagine it something like...) "No cumming until I say so, or there'll be a punishment", "No panties on while we're in session", "if you speak or even moan during this stimulation, you won't get to cum until I've cum twice", ...

And at the same time, "if you want to stop, say 'apples'." Because overstimulation? Shit son, that's scary. Like, forget how to breathe, brain on fire, am I having a stroke scary. That's when the sexy leaves. Or if you're into something like, choking, spanking, ... a safe word can stop your sub from passing out or bleeding. And "rules" or at least a discussion beforehand can stop boredom when fetishes don't align. Maybe they're not into ageplay, or they have a major thing for feet but you've never thought about that because you're indifferent to them. And never surprise someone with anal. That's just... A meme. A very bad one :p

OR. And this is a personal nightmare of mine. What if you're in the middle of a trance, and you get diarrhea? What if you shart during the sexy bits, or that seafood lunch you had isn't loving you back after all?

Better be safe than sorry. Though humorous, ... Srsly get a safeword and make sure your partner knows it, at the start of every session.

poisonsumac

04/26/19 07:21AM

Friye said:
If you're the dominant one, then you can very well lay down the law. You tell her that it'll be safe, with rules, because that is what you want.

It may seem stiff or boring to have rules to your playtime, but they can be sexy as hell. (I don't have any actual experience in this, but I imagine it something like...) "No cumming until I say so, or there'll be a punishment", "No panties on while we're in session", "if you speak or even moan during this stimulation, you won't get to cum until I've cum twice", ...

And at the same time, "if you want to stop, say 'apples'." Because overstimulation? Shit son, that's scary. Like, forget how to breathe, brain on fire, am I having a stroke scary. That's when the sexy leaves. Or if you're into something like, choking, spanking, ... a safe word can stop your sub from passing out or bleeding. And "rules" or at least a discussion beforehand can stop boredom when fetishes don't align. Maybe they're not into ageplay, or they have a major thing for feet but you've never thought about that because you're indifferent to them. And never surprise someone with anal. That's just... A meme. A very bad one :p

OR. And this is a personal nightmare of mine. What if you're in the middle of a trance, and you get diarrhea? What if you shart during the sexy bits, or that seafood lunch you had isn't loving you back after all?

Better be safe than sorry. Though humorous, ... Srsly get a safeword and make sure your partner knows it, at the start of every session.

I'm going slowly to make sure I dont overstep and make a mistake, and whenever I try to talk about rules and safeword she yells me "Do what you want" so I dont know what to do...
I'll just go the long way and hope she doesnt grow bored