Do you prefer to be the one in control, or to be the one who is controlled?

The one in control.

Probably means I'm a control freak, but I'm self-aware and introspective like that.

I actually like both, if Dom is not sadistic or mean then sub is fine. If sadistic then I would want to be Dom.

100% sub, but I stll like some degree of control over what happens to me, which is why I prefer roleplays.

Both, being a switch is defo the best, you get the best of both worlds

My partner used to be full submissive but lately we’ve changed it up. Now when she’s under she plays submissive for a bit, and then I have her switch to dom. Being under while being a dom let’s her feel free. It’s pretty hot.

Sub all the way (haha). I have a naturally submissive personality and I'd feel awkward bossing someone else around, especially if it's sexual. Plus, I'd probably get overwhelmed thinking about all the things I could make my subby partner do and end up doing nothing at all. I'd rather leave the thinking to someone else.

Oh, and I have a praise kink, so knowing my master/mistress was proud of me for doing a task would be heavenly.

Praise kink. Haven't heard the term, but felt it from the opposite end. Great to see that I'm not just crazy.


DOM ENERGY ALL THE WAY. Nothing more fun than the total subsuming of your partner, drowning them in everything you've got while doing absolutely nothing until they're a quivering obedient MESS MWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA



...ahem.

Yeah mine has that. I learned to make it a trigger that when I say “good job” or “that makes me very happy” she gets a pleasant surprise

Hi !

i'm new here, but i wanted to say i'm a 100% submissive boy ! i love the idea of Women taking control of boys through hypnotic powers, or their mesmerizing bodies !

I will still control all the beautiful girls in the world, with my technology, nothing gives me more pleasure!

That's a question with no easy answer for me. There is appeal to both sides. On the one hand, having complete control over others is just so enticing, being able to make decisions and have the ultimate veto over whatever independence is allowed. The down side is that I'd also feel the full weight of responsibility for my choices. I'd have to be a soft touch or else the guilt would tear through me.

On the other hand, being controlled, not being able to say no, has it's own kind of appeal, all responsibility is gone and with it the worries that come from needing to choose. The flip side is that I'd hate to be truly tortured or controlled by someone cruel and heartless.

I suppose if I really had to choose, I'd probably be the controller. At least then I could stay away from the hard dark path, as tempting as it would be to submit and be free from responsibility.

I like being the Master. Though, that may have been obvious :p

My Fembot army/harem is a force to be reckoned with. >:)

What I prefer between being dom or sub?

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Jokes aside, dom is the way I prefer. I'm 100% against losing control over my body and my mind, and I do like the feel of responsibility I have towards a sub that entrusts me with their obedience. However, IRL, I'm not a dom that enjoys having a sub that is incapable to go on with his\her life without my assistance or someone that is not capable of standing for himself\herself, so yeah... I would say I prefer to be regarded as a leader instead of someone you would obey, no questions asked.

I'm 100% a sub. There is no better feeling than becoming so dumb and mindless, you need other people to think for you. <3