I am infinitely curious if my experiences with my gender identity effecting my mind control fetish are at all common. Let me explain.

Before I accepted myself, I looked at porn differently. The women in the pictures were hot, they are still so, and I'd imagine myself as the dom in the situation. However, as I grew to accepting myself, the role I imagined myself in began to twist. I began to imagine I was the one who was mindless, brainwashed, in a trance. Slowly but surely my acceptance of my identity was sliding me down into the realm of subs.

Nowadays, I really love the few female pov femsub posts on the site. Those very much helped me move into being more subby. I am also very deep into RPs now. Each and every one of them sees me as the sub. So my question is, is this something others like me have gone through? I am intensely curious.

I've always been more of a switch, but I can see how this change in preference could occur. Once you've opened your mind to the possibility, it's only natural to explore all your options.