darkray8 said:
I am literally living a kilometer away from armageddon, I don't think any magic dom is going to come :P
Speaking as someone who is within driving distance of both Truth or Consequences (a real town name in NM) and Omega (Another real town name in NM), the dom's are out near Armageddon, we just don't have any signposts or landmarks to find our ways around.
Abraxis said:
Remember that, no matter how we like to portray it here, hypnotism isn't magic. It won't force you to do anything you're uncomfortable with. You're not going to wake up as someone's slave or with your personality rewritten or anything like that. If your hypnotist were so unethical as to try it, your mind would tend to reject the suggestions pretty quickly, maybe even snapping you out of the trance with full memory.
Or are you afraid of what you'll want to do? If you're heavily inhibited (I know I am in real life), that can be tougher to deal with, the fear that you'll go wild. Probably the best thing to do about that is talk to your hypnotist about it. Explain what you're nervous about, and why. If they're any good, they'll be able to find ways to reassure you -- and you'll also have alerted them to the things you don't want to do when you're hypnotized, so they'll know not to go there.
Abraxis pretty much hit the nail on the head here. The main thing to do is to be comfortable with your partner, trust them, and be able to relax. Relaxing can be the roughest thing to do if you're in your own head about the experience. Just communicate, let your partner know what works and what doesn't, and don't get too discouraged if things don't come to you right away.